Humility at best is the abandonment of self righteousness in itself.
No group is more right than the other. This illusion of separation is the only method "needed" to have an ideological stance. I find abuse in many areas of what is considered compassion. Compassion is not nice, or polite. Compassion is aggressive. Compassion is kindness. Dichotomy is ingrained in us, it is part of the biological mechanism.
I found myself healing the most when I realise everyone is abused one way or another. And to forgive them I must forgive myself for thinking that they were doing it on purpose. Their influence has no affect on me. To be abused one must stay in the vicinity of the abuser. The victim is only a victim as much as one allows, being divide by their own wants and needs. Fear is the main tool of an abuser. Guilt is the main tool of the victim. Both are interconnected. And must be integrated to be understood.
I found myself healing the most when I realise everyone is abused one way or another. And to forgive them I must forgive myself for thinking that they were doing it on purpose. Their influence has no affect on me. To be abused one must stay in the vicinity of the abuser. The victim is only a victim as much as one allows, being divide by their own wants and needs. Fear is the main tool of an abuser. Guilt is the main tool of the victim. Both are interconnected. And must be integrated to be understood.
As the teacher is the student, and the student the teacher, a victim can be the abuser, as the abuser the victim.
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